The Value of a Sanity Check
There is no such thing as a perfect leader. Everyone has blind spots and is, at least occasionally, flat out wrong. How can leaders get the best from themselves and their teams? And just what is a “sanity check” anyway?
Pleas tune in this week as Wayne relates a valuable lesson learned from changing a tire with his wife and the importance of having a team of equals.
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This week I want to talk about the value of a sanity check. When I was a student, I had this business class and the professor
brought in successful business leaders from the area. And there was one that came in that I actually had a chance to spend
quite a bit of time with after I graduated and got married and everything. But I remember in his presentation, he used this
term sanity check and I thought it was really cool the way he used it and the way he said he utilized it in his company. And
I had a sanity check this past week that my wife helped me with. We had a flat tire and it's embarrassing to say, I haven't
changed a flat tire in probably about 40 years.
Well, the technology is different now from what it used to. I mean you still have lug nuts, but some of them block on. And
back in my day you had a full-size spare tire mounted somewhere in or on the car or the SUV. And it was a pretty simple
thing to figure everything out. Well, now everything is well hidden. It's just so well engineered. I was marveling at the
engineering of it, but to get this mini spare that we have now available you had to basically crank it out on this cable. And
so, the tire comes down and I grab it and pull on it. Well, it's still on this cable. It's got like a hockey puck thing that's
holding the tire up against the underside of the car. And I looked at it and there was no place to unscrew it on the outside.
And I pulled on it thinking it might just pop off, that didn't work. And my wife looked at it and she couldn't figure it out.
And I'm ready to call AAA to come give us a tow and help this poor old man, if can't figure out how to get the spare off.
And after a minute or two, my wife took this hockey puck thing and it won't come through the hole it's too big. She just
turned it this way. She just turned it 90 degrees and it slipped right through. And suddenly we're off and running we got
our spare on and we were able to get home okay. She said it was a team effort and it was because I was about to
completely give up. And why is that? What does that got to do with business and what does it got to do with us?
Well the point is this, I was taking the lead on getting this tire changed. I was situationally leading at that point, but
sometimes even the best leaders need help from their teams. They're sometimes blind as I was to a different possibility. I
was trying to do this, and I just needed to do that, that simple. So, I needed help with that. Sometimes leaders are just flat
out wrong. They see things wrong, they interpret things wrong. They just don't see the whole picture somehow. And I can
think of the biggest classic business case for this was New Coke. If you guys remember New Coke introduced with much
fanfare and golly Moses, we would all as leaders give anything to have a brand like Coke. And here these geniuses came
along and they said well, we're going to toss this old one away. And now we have New Coke and it's going to be better.
And the market reacted in the worst possible way. It was a disaster and a flop, probably the most famous business flop in
all of modern business history. I don't think those leaders subjected themselves to sanity checks. It is a team effort and
leaders need a team of equals. It's not okay in my opinion to have a king and then everybody else sort of relying on that
Monarch for making decisions. I think the best leaders have teams of equals and these equals push the leaders, they push
each other, they challenge each other, they evaluate all kinds of different alternatives and possibilities. They debate and
they sometimes disagree aggressively with each other. Not tactlessly but sometimes they really do have differences and
they have to work through those things. But that makes the team stronger.
That makes the team stronger. So, if I think back to this business class that I had and the definition of sanity check, I think
a sanity check is a team of equals that pushes a leader and then listening, that's the key. You've got to listen to your team
so that they can help you get the tire changed when you're too blind to figure it out yourself. I'd like to have your
comments. Maybe you have some good stories where your wives were able to point you in the right direction too. This is
Wayne Rivers at The Family Business Institute. Thank you.